Monday, April 4, 2011

Courtesy and Courage

A Question of Dowry and Everything’s Arranged



Talking about dowry and arrange marriage...i believe it is an epic that never end....it is not for what it is but what happen next that always matter...behold and lend me your 5 minutes to read my review and years to think...

A QUESTION OF DOWRY

Mr. Ramachandran couldn’t afford to buy a necklace for his daughter as her dowry because the land that he supposed to sell off is depleted in its value. And so when he called up Thiruchelvam who is the bridegroom and told him about the situation, he cancelled the wedding without second thoughts and so “Sivasothie aka the bride to be went into the kitchen, he head bow modestly.” 

I say....

Why on earth people should be bother with that????? Old generation always get angry of my question. And there come "It is tradition lad,you will never understand"....To my belief,  not only the indian...it also come in malay people...to my concern...our religion only put in a small amount only which is suit for all class of people...never been that much till you may use the money to get married four time.It should not burdening the bride nor the groom.it should be suit enough as long both of them are married and happy..For it is capitalism where the rich keep winning their game and poor will always be the same.


Everything’s Arranged




This story is about a girl name Rukumani who  is in love with a Chinese boy, Johnny.TO be told that it just a rumors that spread well. So, in order to save the marriage form going on, the parents of Rukumani increase $20,000 in the dowry “Already gossips were spreading rumours, and if these rumours reached the ears of the bridegroom’s family, they might withdraw their offer, and it would be impossible to marry Rukumani off.” By using the reason to “save the risk of family disgrace” I don’t think that the dowry system is being well treated here.





I say.....



Good story with a good issues marked....people nowadays prefers dignity rather than truth.They never put the right thing on the right track and they prefers to do something bad just to hold up their name.Arranged is an optional.Some people prefer to be arranged and some people are not, so it is for the best to ask them properly.More than that it is better to have an agreement form both side.



p/s= i am wondering how much Preity zinta will pay me if i get chance to marry her...wow...."khawin free"...






1 comment:

  1. Preity Zinta heh? How about Anushka Sharma? hahaha..

    I agree with you mate. People nowadays care too much about their reputation in the society. The more higher you can spent, the more publicity you'll get. This situation become a phenomenon to our culture right now. They don't think about the children happiness and how they live their life in the future. They already forgot about the family institution. They keep telling its about the tradition, but they're actually forgot about it.

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